Hello Everyone! :)
I have had some interesting experiences lately. Have you ever had a friend who you just couldn't trust anymore? Well, that is the way it is with me right now. I have a friend who I thought was my best friend but they trashed me and my family and have lied to a lot of people. Not just little lies, but big ones, and the lies keep on coming! I met this friend on the internet and not that long ago they sent me an email asking if I could forgive them. I didn't email them back yet though because I don't think I should communicate with them anymore. I was really hurt by them and my family was as well. There are just too many things that went wrong in that friendship. I mean we had some great times together and all, but there are things between us that will never be able to get fixed. I am willing to forgive them, but I just don't want to be friends again. Another thing is that this person will not admit that they are wrong, they won't admit the things that they have done. They call themselves a "Christian" but they are going about it all wrong.
I am going to finish this up now. I want to say that true friends never hurt you and never leave you forever. They always come back, but don't let them come back after they have done very horrible stuff to you. If you aren't able to trust them anymore, then you need to allow them to build their trust with you up again, but I don't think that it will happen because I just don't care to be friends with this person anymore because I am afraid of getting hurt (emotionally) again. I don't ever want that to happen again and that is why I am so careful now. I am not on the lookout for things like that and I am actually glad that I experienced that for this reason, but with all the pain and sorrow I have had, I would give anything to not go through this again!
I will write more soon!! :)
2 comments:
I think that most of us have been betrayed by a friend, or had their trust broken. It's definitely hard, and a lot of the time it does destroy the friendship like you said.
I think that sometimes though, you can rebuild the friendship. You take a big risk of being hurt again by trying that, but it may be worth it.
Yes. The friendship I have had will not be one that I want to pursue anymore. There were too many things that happened for it to be the same again. I wasn't even the one who wanted to end the friendship in the first place. I did realize after it was over though, that there were things that were wrong in our friendship. I think things are getting a little better now, but there are still things that need to be straightened out.
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